The Way I Deal With Stress


I have always been an active person. Recently, the level of activity has decreased significantly due to the pressures of work and just general life. At one time, I forgot that whenever I was stressed, I used to dance it away and forget all about it. One of my mottos is ‘dance for life’. This is because, if you don’t dance for anybody, at least dance for life – dance for your very existence. It combats physical stress as well as mental and emotional stress. Blast the headphones, blast the stereos and just take part in your own scene.

Losing My Love Cherry (musing)


Let me tell you something…

I lost my love cherry to a special guy… 

I put my hope and trust in him

He gave me reason to adore him…

but when he trapped me…

He made me lose my damn mind.

I have been trying to get it back… but he has such a hold on it.

He still does… 

If anyone has any advice on how to find my missing mind… tag= Lovers That Have Been Mind Raped on my wall and provide your comments

Embracing Your Inner Child

When you were younger, the world was limitless and infinite. You could be anything and anyone. You could dream up places and fantasies that were undeniably possible. You lacked fear, you were fearless and no one could tell you anything. What happened to that child? What happened to YOU!

As we grow, the realities of the world and how it works dawns upon us. We are no loger fearless but in fact we fear everything and everyone. We care what people think of us, we watch what we say, we are careful what activities we partake. We place limits on EVERYTHING. We have instances of big dreams and how we can achieve them but we soon doubt ourselves and our abilities again. If only my younger self could help me out of the rut that I sometimes feel I am in.

Listen to her… Listen to him… Listen to what they are saying…

“Remember when you didn’t care what people thought about you… it didn’t even cross your mind.”

You embraced creativity…”

“You loved to laugh, you weren’t afraid to cry, you weren’t afraid to demand what you wanted”

“You made friends easily… You were intrigued by people.”

“You asked many questions… you weren’t afraid to ask.”

We all have different experiences but no one can deny that the possibilities are endless when we think like a child. Not childish but childlike.Image